Embracing New Beginnings: Navigating Life as Empty Nesters

I'm Back and Adjusting to Life as Empty Nesters

It has been quite the roller coaster ride since my last blog post. My daughter finally got through a very tumultuous senior year of high school and graduated with honors and a really great new boyfriend to boot! This week we moved her into her dorm at college and she's so excited to be done with the dramatic high school chapter of her life and starting one where she can call the shots on her own terms. We are so happy for her, but of course we miss her greatly too. She's our only kid, so we're now empty nesters. Our nest just had one chick and she's flown.....

As we've been preparing for her to go off to college it has also been at the forefront of our mind on how we would pay for said education as well as our upcoming retirement. We are not old, per se, but we are no spring chickens either at this point. As daunting as it may seem, entering this stage of life requires significant financial planning. With my daughter heading off to college, the focus has shifted from just everyday expenses to tuition and living expenses for college.

In addition, I've had a recent medical revelation that I will be needing a knee replacement - talk about feeling ancient - and it has really got me thinking more seriously about when we can retire as well. I don't want to wait until I am too immobile to do any travel or anything else enjoyable in retirement. I want to do it soon enough that i can really take advantage of that free time.

Therein lies the rub - two major expenses at once. Luckily we have a 529 plan set aside for at least 1 year of our daughter's college expenses and the rest we will attempt to pay along the way. I think it can be done and it will just be 4 years after all. All the while, we're still standing strong on our retirement contributions and not decreasing those. We will bump them up even more once college is done.

While the adjustment to an empty nest may appear overwhelming, it opens the door to new opportunities. As parents, we now have time to rediscover our interests and passions that may have taken a back seat to raising our kids. This new freedom allows us to focus on personal growth and invest in activities we’ve always wanted to explore. I am still working and plan to for at least a few more years, but I can slowly start reintroducing things that I've lost sight of, like my different hobbies, blogging, and other things. I also used to take art classes and I might start that up again.

I'm also hoping that my hubby and I will keep doing and re-start some common interests that we can share along the way now that we will have more time to ourselves. We should make the most of it. It's our time now. This is a good time to plan for the future (retirement) but also start transitioning our life now while we have the means to make changes.

For next time....

When Can We Retire?

The big question is, with all this going on, when CAN we retire? When will we have enough money TO retire? It's a scary endeavor to think about isn't it? I plan to cover this in great detail in the next blog post, along with introducing a tool that will help you determine just that. Stay tuned....

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